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kiwiflora's review against another edition
3.0
Such a dreary cover for a woman extraordinary in her time. In this densely packed, but never overwhelming book of biographical fiction, the author has been voracious in her research to tell the story of Alva Vanderbilt Belmont. A Google search of Alva will label her as either an American socialite or an American suffragette, but she was much more than this - an architect, a campaigner for equal rights for women, and a social activist to both empower and educate women in hygiene, family health, reproduction and contraception. History of the time being generally written by men, it is hardly surprising that she received a lot of bad press, labelled a social climber, shrewish, aggressive, domineering - you get the picture. And she probably was all those things because she had to be to be heard, but she was also a most interesting woman who determined from a young age that she was going to be in charge of her own life.
Born into a highly respectable but impoverished family, by the time she was in her early 20s in late 1870s, she knew she had to marry well to have any hope of saving herself and her family from a life of poverty. She used her good name and breeding to land herself the prize of a young man from the very wealthy but socially inferior Vanderbilt family. The higher echelons of New York society never being an easy nut to crack, this marriage gave the Vanderbilt family its much needed entry into the right crowd, with Alva being the director of proceedings. From that point on Alva was unstoppable. Known for having a manner well suited to her social standing that upset many people, she was also well known for her energy, her intelligence, strong opinions and willingness to challenge the tightly defined conventions of the day. She had three children, successfully divorced her unfaithful husband in a time when divorce was a social suicide, remarried for love, and never stopped championing the rights of women and children.
This is a great read, never boring, and gives a fascinating insight into a time and city when enormous wealth was being made by those willing to take risks in the very new country of America. And how appropriate to read about such a woman in this year of celebrating 125 years of the first country in the world to give women the vote, and it wasn't the US, it was New Zealand - not a fake news in sight.
Born into a highly respectable but impoverished family, by the time she was in her early 20s in late 1870s, she knew she had to marry well to have any hope of saving herself and her family from a life of poverty. She used her good name and breeding to land herself the prize of a young man from the very wealthy but socially inferior Vanderbilt family. The higher echelons of New York society never being an easy nut to crack, this marriage gave the Vanderbilt family its much needed entry into the right crowd, with Alva being the director of proceedings. From that point on Alva was unstoppable. Known for having a manner well suited to her social standing that upset many people, she was also well known for her energy, her intelligence, strong opinions and willingness to challenge the tightly defined conventions of the day. She had three children, successfully divorced her unfaithful husband in a time when divorce was a social suicide, remarried for love, and never stopped championing the rights of women and children.
This is a great read, never boring, and gives a fascinating insight into a time and city when enormous wealth was being made by those willing to take risks in the very new country of America. And how appropriate to read about such a woman in this year of celebrating 125 years of the first country in the world to give women the vote, and it wasn't the US, it was New Zealand - not a fake news in sight.
megannnnreads99's review against another edition
challenging
emotional
funny
inspiring
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.75
I enjoyed this book a lot. The moment I learned this book is about the Vanderbilt / Gilded Age, I knew I had to read this. I already enjoyed the TV show "The Gilded Age" and ever since the season 1 premiere, I have been reading a lot about the Vanderbilt. The Vanderbilt is no stranger to me. However, Alva Vanderbilt or Alva Belmont was an unfamiliar figure to me, except me reading her Wikipedia page. I have learned so much about her from this book. Although this is a docu-fiction / a fictionalized version of Alva's life based on real events, I could tell the amount of research was very well done here. It made the book more interesting to read. I have learned to admire Alva's strong-willed personality. Some may see her as stubborn and persistent (not in the good way), but I admire her for being someone who was very wealth and very much in power would take advantage of that to be a rebel of the high society and be an example for women (which later on not just upper class but every woman, which to be honest, I would love to see more of her involvement in women suffrage).
Aside seeing who Alva was, I was very much looking forward to Alva and Oliver's relationship blossomed. It's unfortunate their relationship / marriage was short-span (relatively to her marriage to Vanderbilt), but I am very happy that she found her happy ending and her true love at the end. If anything, some say she's a gold digger - marrying to the Vanderbilt - she had to do what she had to do at that time, which is providing financial stability to her family. But it got me wondering - would I rather be with someone who provides me all the stability but love, or with someone that I truly love?
Anyways, I look forward to reading Fowler's first book, "Z" about Fitzgerald, whom I know nothing about, except know of.
Aside seeing who Alva was, I was very much looking forward to Alva and Oliver's relationship blossomed. It's unfortunate their relationship / marriage was short-span (relatively to her marriage to Vanderbilt), but I am very happy that she found her happy ending and her true love at the end. If anything, some say she's a gold digger - marrying to the Vanderbilt - she had to do what she had to do at that time, which is providing financial stability to her family. But it got me wondering - would I rather be with someone who provides me all the stability but love, or with someone that I truly love?
Anyways, I look forward to reading Fowler's first book, "Z" about Fitzgerald, whom I know nothing about, except know of.
danajens12's review against another edition
informative
reflective
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
2.75
hollypeno_pepper's review against another edition
hopeful
reflective
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
If you enjoy the Bridgerton series for the scheming, society ladder climbing, women's politics, and feminism you should give this a shot. (If you're there for the spice 🌶️ this won't be for you.) A Well Behaved Woman is inspired by the real Alva Vanderbilt Belmont and her plans to raise her family's status in society, free herself from the constraints of "women's place in society", as the status of women in America. An intriguing character study about a woman with incredible wealth and privilege. I wish it had delved further into her involvement with the women's suffrage movement.
jeccaduck's review against another edition
adventurous
challenging
dark
emotional
funny
informative
inspiring
reflective
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
genthereader's review against another edition
emotional
informative
inspiring
reflective
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
4.0
lelia13's review against another edition
5.0
What an absolute delight! I cannot recommend this book highly enough, particularly if you enjoy historical fiction. Therese Anne Fowler's depiction of Alva Vanderbilt is nuanced and thoughtful, and the story itself is highly compelling. I couldn't put it down.
While the modern woman's circumstances and opportunities are different, this book continues to resonate in our modern landscape.
While the modern woman's circumstances and opportunities are different, this book continues to resonate in our modern landscape.
carla_l's review against another edition
informative
relaxing
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
hotpotatofarmer's review against another edition
4.0
Loved the storyline, although I became a bit bored with it after Alva’s divorce. Also thought it focused on Alva’s internal struggles a bit too much, but who’s to say I would have liked it as much without them? All-in-all... well written, good plot, excellent example of historical fiction