I particularly liked how Coles ended this book on the idea that all of us can take the exact same path and end in entirely different places. The truth is that none of us will ever really agree on what sexual ethics are ethical and I don't think we're meant to. I think what is a calling for one person is just that - a calling for one person. I think a God that is, at once, beginning and end, may make more than one diametrically opposed truths true. Coles is a great writer and I really enjoyed reading this even if it cannot be used by me.