I'm so glad that my local library had this book and I got to read it. My body is relatively able, but I still learned a lot that would help my understand of my own body (plus, of course, disabled bodies). The narrative is founded on the respect for individual differences in bodily needs, but it provides more specific information for bodily access assistance. There is a two page activity with questions that help you reflect on your sex preferences. I did it in my journal and realized that I am still holding back vital parts of my preferences from my life-long partner. I recommend this short and sweet, yet profound book to everyone regardless of their gender, sexuality, or body.