A generally good self help book from the perspective one of the most forward women on the internet (said with lots of love). Some chapters were long (a preference thing for sure with all texts) but it was made up by how absolutely human and clear Mz. Afualo's thoughts are and, further, how much she feels the need to share with others. I would recommend this to anyone who needs to find themselves and clarify the boundaries they need when it comes to men and patriarchal standards.