The Year of Yes is amazing. Read it. Tell them I sent you. In the first third, you're wanting to be single so you can accept any date thrown your way. Never mind I can't remember someone asking me out since, well... The second third, you're a little scared for humanity. Last third, you're so thankful for your hunny that you pull them into bed on top of you to squeeze them tight and smother them with kisses. When you read dedication to her husband in the acknowledgment section, you will be bawling like a baby. Unless you are heartless.