J’aurais bien aimé le lire en français but still this was such a captivating read, i read it over two days and when i wasn’t reading i couldn’t stop thinking about it. I do not think her comportement towards women makes this book less good and event more, i do not find her treatment of girls particularly disturbing. I love the way in which she is thinking about motherhood and the difference she makes between motherhood, womenhood and love. I’m big on the coming out while in a relationship with a man situations so this made me feel seen and proved that as long as you’re sure in your decision that it’s the right thing, leaving the man. Would love to hear more of her thoughts on friendship, even feminism and gender. Très français, très gay, faut connaitre les deux pour comprendre mieux je trouve